âMy first kiss went a little like thisâŚ.â Your first kiss as husband and wife is a big deal. Youâve probably kissed a million times, but this time is special (and in front of ALL your closest friends and family). Why not make it perfect? Weâve put together a few tips to ensure that your first kiss is a success. From hand placement to duration, weâve got you covered. Pucker up! đ
Doâs
1.Practice, Practice, Practice!
If you are okay with kissing before marriage, you can use your âfirst kissâ as an excuse to get as many smooches as your heart desires. Practice makes perfect! Hand placement, time duration, approach, and dismount should all be considered. (It almost sounds like a gymnastics routine – but I swear it is not that complicated.)
2. Get Close
Unless you want to look like Mickey and Minnie Mouse, you should not have to hinge at the waist to lock lips. Approach each other and get close so the distance is comfortable. If your groom is much taller than you, consider meeting him halfway on your tiptoes so he doesnât have to bend down so far.
3. Do Something with Your Hands
You need a game-plan for hand placement. Some of the most popular hand placements include holding hands, a partial embrace with hands on each other’s waists, or a passionate âface grabâ. You can choose whatever makes you feel comfortable – but definitely choose something!
4. Close Your Eyes
Youâve been looking at each other the whole ceremony and have the rest of your lives to look as well. So for the sake of your wedding pictures, please close your eyes when you kiss! It will be much more passionate and a lot less awkward.
5. Go for it!
Donât be nervous – you just married the love of your life! Pucker up and lay one on that lucky man!
Do Notâs
1.Approach Each Other Too Quickly
I know you are excited to kiss your new hubby – but donât let that ruin the moment. Make eye contact with your groom, smile, and slowly approach each other. This will make the moment more intimate and better photographed.
2. Be Sloppy
Keep your tongue in your mouth. Save it for later. Itâs awkward for the guests and it will not look cute in pictures. Just trust me on this one.
3. Make it a Surprise
If you want to have a dramatic âdipâ or be picked up in any way – this should NOT be a surprise for either of you. Imagine being dropped on the ground by your new husband – not the best way to kick start your marriage if you ask me. (No pun intended!)
4. Tilt Your Head TOO Much
Avoid each other’s noses without looking like your neck is going to snap. A slight head tilt is obviously necessary but donât overdo it. Normally, the bride tilts her head to the right but, you should do whatever feels natural as a couple.
5. Make it Last Forever
Keep it short(ish), sweet, and to the point. Most photographers recommend 5 quick seconds or â3 Mississippiâsâ for the first kiss. It is long enough to get quality photos and to be intimate, but is not too long that will make your guests slightly uncomfortable. Save those longer kisses for the honeymoon! đ
Images courtesy of:
Frozen Exposure Photo & Cinema
